Planning a wedding in Cincinnati can be as exhilarating as it is overwhelming, but one surefire way to keep things running smoothly is to address the elephant in the room: the enthusiastic family member taking photos on your wedding day. While we totally get their excitement, there’s a fine line between capturing memories and becoming a rogue paparazzo. We lovingly refer to these enthusiastic individuals as “Uncle Bobs.” Here’s how to set boundaries and keep everyone happy (and out of the way of your professional photographers).
Set Boundaries Early About Family Member Taking Photos
The first rule of wedding photography? Clear expectations. Let your family photographer—aka Uncle Bob or Aunt Sue—know that there are certain times during the day when efficiency is critical. Moments like the ceremony, family formals, and first dances require a level of precision only seasoned pros can deliver. Gently remind them that their job is to enjoy the day, not work it. After all, wedding planning is stressful enough without adding extra photographers to the mix!
Stay Out of the Photographer’s Way
We know your cousin’s new camera is their pride and joy, but when it’s time to capture the vows or that epic first kiss, we need a clear shot. Having family members popping into the aisle can disrupt the flow and even ruin a key moment. Don’t worry—we’ll make sure they have time to take their snaps later. For now, let the professionals take the lead.
Let Them Have Their Moment
Moreover here’s the good news: We understand that family members taking photos on your wedding day are just excited to be part of your celebration. Once we’ve nailed the must-have shots, we’ll gladly step aside for a few minutes so they can capture their memories. A quick photo op usually satisfies them, allowing us to move forward with our timeline.
Respect the Excitement
We get it—this is a big day for them, too! While it’s easy to feel frustrated when an overzealous relative steps into frame, remember that they’re acting out of love. Obviously, we’ll work to strike the perfect balance between showing them respect and keeping your wedding photography seamless.
A Team Effort Balancing Family Member Taking Photos
Undoubtedly, by setting clear boundaries, ensuring they’re not in the way, and giving them their moment to shine, we can turn a potentially chaotic situation into a harmonious one. Family members taking photos on your wedding day should add joy to the celebration—not stress. And as your Cincinnati wedding photographers, we’re here to make sure your memories are captured beautifully, while everyone still feels included.
Happy wedding planning,
Nicole + Ryan
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